Learn Boundaries, Communication & Assertiveness Skills

——   Created by Jef Gazley

Stop getting abused and learn healthy boundaries. Learn how to be assertive and master communication skills.

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1h 16m
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When society is dysfunctional and parents are shame bound they display unhealthy boundaries and project their shame onto their children. This creates unhealthy boundaries in the children and makes it exceedingly difficult to set healthy boundaries and stop abuse.

The first section of this course teaches what healthy and unhealthy boundaries are, how they develop, how shame warps them and impairs an individual’s ability to defend against abusive behavior of self and others.

We are able to become intimate and resolve problems to the degree that we are able to communicate effectively. Most of the problems associated with society can be traced to faulty communication and conflict resolution. This video addresses the art of communication.

The second section teaches effective communication and assertiveness principles and identifies aggressive and passive-aggressive patterns. It will help you identify emotions and teach paraphrasing and validating.

8 Lessons

Healthy Boundries
0:09:53
What are Healthy and Unhealthy Boundaries?
0:07:54
Shame
0:17:06
Unhealthy Boundaries and Abusive Behavior
0:02:23
Healthy Personal Boundaries: Conclusion
Communication and Assertiveness Training
0:10:12
The Percolator Effect and Primary and Secondary Feelings
0:10:01
The Three Forms of Communication
0:12:24
Paraphrasing and Validating
0:06:10
Role Playing Examples and Conclusion
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  • 1h 16m of on-demand video
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About the instructor

Jef Gazley, M.S., LMFT, DCC, D.CEP has practiced psychotherapy for over thirty years and is the owner operator of www.asktheinternettherapist.com since 1998 and www.hypnosisCDsandMP3s.com. He has been practicing energy psychology since 1975. He is trained and certified in both traditional and Ericksonian hypnosis. He is a member in good standing in the American …

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